Confusion.
It is an emotion felt by everyone, at some point everyday. Whether it be over some complex wording or whether it be over another person's emotions. Quite often people refer to Confusion as the second meaning. Confusion over how another person feels about one's self.
Define Confusion? "A disorder resulting from a failure to behave predictably."
But who wants to behave predictably? Behaving predictably is one of the worst ideas ever. Spontaneity is the fruit of life. Mix things up, go crazy, do wild shit you crazy child you.
Re-Define Confusion? "Disturbed orientation in regard to time, place, person or thing"
Disturbed orientation, is possible one of the best 2 word collection I've ever heard.
"I'm sorry, have I confused you?"
"No, you've just completely disturbed my orientation. Thanks"
Relationship confusion.
Possible the most frustrating kind of confusion. Really, until you ask someone exactly what they think of you you never really can be 100% sure. Even then it's still not certain, people will often lie so they don't hurt your feelings. How does that make any sense?
A: Far out I hate B, oh shit here he comes.
B: Hi A!
A: Oh hey B. How's it going bud?
If you hate someone, grow a pair and say it straight up to them. Don't bullshit liking them enough so they stop annoying you.
A: Far out I hate B, oh shit here he comes.
B: Hi A!
A: B piss off.
B: With pleasure, every moment I talk to you it feels like someone is nailing into my ear drums. So long.
Then everyone's happy? No, not happy. Satisfied. Satisfied that they have no fake friends, all of their friends are true and loyal. They may not hate person A, but they don't have to hate. They can come to a mutual feeling of dislike. I share it with many people and in certain circumstances are able to work with these people still.
Love Confusion.
The most common kind of confusion I'd say. You might say differently, but hey.
Love Confusion is caused by 'mixed signals' from either party. One person may give off the vibe that they like the other person then from there are three different things that may happen...
1. The person is a slut. A massive massive slut. They will flirt with anyone and anything. This leads to the person being dissapointed and rejected because hey, they only know how to spell 'sex' not 'relationship'. Anything over three letters is confusing for them.
2. Massively Mixed Signals. While you may think the other person is indeed interested in you and you may think perhaps a relationship is forming, it is not unfortunately. The other person has not realised you felt that way and now that you have expressed it partially they no longer talk to you like they used to, or at all.
3. Love. When you most admirably express your feelings, they too express their feelings for you also. And then, well you know the rest. First comes loves, then comes marriage,then comes the baby in the golden carriage, right?
Confusion really only occurs in the first two, but in order to succeed and find a number three you must first endure a series of ones and two's and most likely a whole bunch of other shit. Agreed? Yes, good.
Confusion.
Re-define confusion?
When you don't know what else to feel, when you're lost, when you're unaware.
Friday, April 16, 2010
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