Change.

One day I found a quote about change and everytime I think about change, I think of it.
"Without change we don't grow, and if we don't grow, well .... we aren't really living"

There is so many different definitions, so I chose my favourties.
1. To give a completely different form or appearance to; transform.
2. To lay aside, abandon, or leave for another; switch.
3. To cause to be different.
4. Something different.
5. The replacing of one thing for another.


Take the 5 and piece together the best definition? Well then,
"To abandon something, possibly for another, because of a want to be different; to transform"
I'd say that's a pretty solid sum-up of change.

Change as difficult as it can be, is always for the better. If you don't look at change as a good thing, then you live each day in fear. Change comes sometimes so rapidly and abruptly , you cannot prepare for it. You have to be ready for change and expect it at every turn.

Change hits you in a million different forms. Whether it's something irregular about your daily routine, a new outfit, an end or start in a relationship, the death of someone however close or distant, Whatever. Change hits you and it hits you hard. Sometimes it's easy to get over change, because it happens so slowly and sometimes you barley even notice. Change that hits you hard though, is tough. Especially the death of someone, it's hard to believe someone can be here one day and gone the next. At the end of that day, you've got to take a lesson from it.

You only live once, take every opportunity. Use it. Your life is, your life. Do with it what you wish.

Anyway, back to the topic of change. Changes in relationships are super hard. Most teenagers would call their friends over family any day. Losing a friend, sucks. It sucks majorly. If your friend is really a good friend they will talk to you, look after you and make sure you stay friends dammit. If people don't want to put in the time or energy to be your mate, then they're not worth your time. To find the real amazing, special people, you have to put up with the shit ones first. But in the end, it's worth it.

Same goes for relationship, relationships I guess. You've got to put up with shit ones first and a whole lot of shit before you really find the amazing ones. Or not? Maybe you get lucky and find the best one first. If you do, don't stuff it up. But at this age, you can't really tell who is the amazing ones. Take the chance though, you'll never know until you try it.

So, change..
It can go by unnoticed,
It can affect you,
It can affect your day,
It can affect your week,
It can throw your entire world upside down and stuff up everything.

But at the end of that day, whats done is done. So move one, make the best of it and live your life.