Change.

One day I found a quote about change and everytime I think about change, I think of it.
"Without change we don't grow, and if we don't grow, well .... we aren't really living"

There is so many different definitions, so I chose my favourties.
1. To give a completely different form or appearance to; transform.
2. To lay aside, abandon, or leave for another; switch.
3. To cause to be different.
4. Something different.
5. The replacing of one thing for another.


Take the 5 and piece together the best definition? Well then,
"To abandon something, possibly for another, because of a want to be different; to transform"
I'd say that's a pretty solid sum-up of change.

Change as difficult as it can be, is always for the better. If you don't look at change as a good thing, then you live each day in fear. Change comes sometimes so rapidly and abruptly , you cannot prepare for it. You have to be ready for change and expect it at every turn.

Change hits you in a million different forms. Whether it's something irregular about your daily routine, a new outfit, an end or start in a relationship, the death of someone however close or distant, Whatever. Change hits you and it hits you hard. Sometimes it's easy to get over change, because it happens so slowly and sometimes you barley even notice. Change that hits you hard though, is tough. Especially the death of someone, it's hard to believe someone can be here one day and gone the next. At the end of that day, you've got to take a lesson from it.

You only live once, take every opportunity. Use it. Your life is, your life. Do with it what you wish.

Anyway, back to the topic of change. Changes in relationships are super hard. Most teenagers would call their friends over family any day. Losing a friend, sucks. It sucks majorly. If your friend is really a good friend they will talk to you, look after you and make sure you stay friends dammit. If people don't want to put in the time or energy to be your mate, then they're not worth your time. To find the real amazing, special people, you have to put up with the shit ones first. But in the end, it's worth it.

Same goes for relationship, relationships I guess. You've got to put up with shit ones first and a whole lot of shit before you really find the amazing ones. Or not? Maybe you get lucky and find the best one first. If you do, don't stuff it up. But at this age, you can't really tell who is the amazing ones. Take the chance though, you'll never know until you try it.

So, change..
It can go by unnoticed,
It can affect you,
It can affect your day,
It can affect your week,
It can throw your entire world upside down and stuff up everything.

But at the end of that day, whats done is done. So move one, make the best of it and live your life.

Smile Continued.

A smile is attractive.
I had a chat with a few of my mates the other day and we realized that the single most attractive thing about a girl, all else aside, is her smile. A smile is a sign of beauty, a sign of happiness.

Depressed people, angry people and sad people are no fun to be around. You pick the kind of mood people are in because of their facial expressions. If you look sad, angry or depressed people will intentionally try to avoid you. It's in our nature, if your in a good mood, you don't want to hang around with people who will kill your mood. That sucks! Buzzkill of the day.

If you see someone with a massive smile on their face, you instantly want to talk to that person, to be in their Ora. The person is a delight and all others radiate to them like a moth to light. They are a beacon of happiness and pleasantness. Their smile and their happiness makes them attractive to you. When people who are constantly sad and down are suddenly happy and smiling you realize just how cool that person really is and how much you like them.

If you had 6 girls lined up in front of you, 5 of them not smiling and 1 of them smiling like she'd just one the lotto, which one would you really want to talk to? At the end of the day, pretty girls have pretty smiles and that's why they are, you guessed it, pretty girls.

Remember to smile, it's attractive, we like it :)

Smile.

A smile, like so :)
Definied as a change one's facial expression by spreading the lips, often to signal pleasure.

A smile can be such a powerful thing. I guarantee you if you spend a whole day purposefully not smiling, you will have a shitter of a day. You smile as hard as you can, your day will be amazing, people will buy you presents, people will ask you to marry them, they will do you favors because you are just so damn happy.

Your smile is contagious. No matter what you look like, a smile spreads, like butter. HA.
But really your smile is amazing. You should smile. Why shouldn't you smile? You have no reason not to really.
Smile! Your alive!

Yes, sometimes things suck and you don't know what to think, you want to be angry, you want to be sad. But all those emotions aside, smile! Don't you hate it when your really mad or sad and you just want to be and someone you know really well says something and you just know you have to laugh? So frustrating when you break your anger/sadness wall, but after you feel great and the bad emotions pass. True mates know exactly what to say when your sad and you instantly laugh uncontrollably.

What does a smile mean to you? I asked people what a smile meant to them, these are their responses.
A smile makes you happy and fills you with warmth
A smile makes me happy.
A lot.
Happy.
Happiness, or if someone smiles at you it's a sign of acknowledgment or just that they are happy to see you.
Means happiness

I'd say they are better definitions than the original. A smile is happiness, theres no better was to put it. So brush up your pearly whites and get smiling :)

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