Whatever you want in life, go get it. Don't waste your whole life waiting for something that you think you want, you might want. If you want it regardless of all other factors and everything else go get it.
Life is far too short for you to waste time pondering whether or not you want to something. Don't make excuses, don't lie to people, don't lie to yourself.
If you want something badly enough, get up off your fat ass and do it. Otherwise in life you're gunna go nowhere and that's the harsh truth. If you're not prepared to make sacrifices and change things, because you want something. Then you're pathetic. Do it.
If you wanna lose weight, do it.
If you wanna buy a house, do it.
If you wanna change your life, do it.
If you want someone badly enough, go get them.
Sometimes, yes, it is hard to know what we really want. Humans are a cauldron of confusing emotions that don't understand each other and we're expected to understand them. But that's life. You do your best to know yourself and work out what you really want. You've gotta sort your mind out and work out whats most important to you. Prioritize what you want. Work out what you want most on your life. And then guess what?
You go get it.
If you really want it that bad.Then you'll do what you have to, to go get it. If you don't then you won't. Either you didn't really want it that much or you're scared to really try and get it. Why are you scared of something you want? Don't be scared. It should be excitement rather than fear. You're scared of life otherwise. Scared of change.
That's really sad. You should embrace every part of life with an excited attitude. You never know what could happen next, be excited. Life is an adventure and it's your adventure. So live it and own it. Make your decisions, make your ideas, make your life how you want it to be. If you really want it. You'll do it.
Don't hurt people along the way. Your decisions will almost ultimately affect people. Try not to hurt people please, that shits not cool. It's hard to weigh up whether or not what you want is fair to hurt someone else. I suppose in some cases, it might be. The person might be unfair. If you're in a relationship you're unhappy in, you shouldn't stay in it because you don't want to hurt the other person. That's not fair on either of you.
You can do anything you want. You can have anything you want. You can be anyone you want. So go do it. Everyone is amazing and has amazing talents. Use them to get what you want. There is a want in everyone for something. No matter how deep. If it'll take you 50 years or 30 seconds. If you really want it then,
Go.
Get.
It.
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Sunday, August 28, 2011
New Doors.
I love this. 'When one door closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.'
It's so ridiculously true. So many times in life you have something and for whatever reason it ends or disappears. That's a door closing. Sometimes we seem to struggle to grasp the concept that something is finished or over. We cling to it as if it's not ended in the hope it'll re-open. It's really an unfortunate thing. Like the quote says, a new door opens and we don't see it.
So a door's closed in your face. You're upset, you stand head against the door crying. But you don't turn around! There's a new door open behind you. Shock horror! You turn and see the door and what do you do? That's your big decision. Do you try and move forwards through the new door? Or do you cling to the door you're at praying it'll re-open.
I don't think there's a right answer there really. I'd like to say that the right answer is turn around and sprint through that door as fast as you can and don't look back. But maybe it's not the right answer? I can't tell you!
I'm assuming most people will read this and assume it's about relationships. But not really. Yes it does have a lot to do with relationships but it's the same in any aspect of life really. Losing something and not realizing there is something newer waiting for you. It really is hard though, when you've got something that you know,
You're comfortable with,
You think it's easy,
You like it,
But when it ups and leaves. What have you got then? Well to be perfectly harsh. Nothing.
Relationships, they end. We all know they do. Nothing is forever right? Wrong. It is what you make it. You control it. Well, that two of you do. Break-up's are hard, I know. But you never know who might pop up out of the blue. If you break up with someone or they break up with you, everything happens for a reason. IF you break up, then it was never meant to be. But with relationships you've got to go through all the shitty doors first before you find that one door, that's perfect for you. Everything happens for a reason, everything. There is something better out there for you.
There is always ALWAYS a new door waiting for you. Sometimes you might even have to open it, sounds like a lot of effort, I know. A door is an opportunity, for you, for your life. Why not take it?
You might have to open doors.
You might go through some wrong doors? Bad doors maybe?
You might be scared to go through some doors.
YOU might even have to find some doors.
But when you find them, open them, or are scared of them. Say Fuck it. Run 100 mile an hour through that door, you never know what is on the other side and you know what?
That's the greatest part of all. It's so exciting. That's life for you. You never really know what's coming or what's next. Everything is so unpredictable, it's brilliant. People do as they want, change when they want. Nature does what it wants. Some might say that's a scary thought and I guess yeh it kind of is. But look at the other side of it. It's so exhilarating. Every day should both excite and inspire you. Even if things are really shit in your life and you think you won't recover from something, you know you can. You never know whats coming next.
Don't plan your life. Don't not do things because of a plan. Live your life how you want. It's your life, so yeh it's about you. It's your story, write it and make it a damn good story.
It's so ridiculously true. So many times in life you have something and for whatever reason it ends or disappears. That's a door closing. Sometimes we seem to struggle to grasp the concept that something is finished or over. We cling to it as if it's not ended in the hope it'll re-open. It's really an unfortunate thing. Like the quote says, a new door opens and we don't see it.
So a door's closed in your face. You're upset, you stand head against the door crying. But you don't turn around! There's a new door open behind you. Shock horror! You turn and see the door and what do you do? That's your big decision. Do you try and move forwards through the new door? Or do you cling to the door you're at praying it'll re-open.
I don't think there's a right answer there really. I'd like to say that the right answer is turn around and sprint through that door as fast as you can and don't look back. But maybe it's not the right answer? I can't tell you!
I'm assuming most people will read this and assume it's about relationships. But not really. Yes it does have a lot to do with relationships but it's the same in any aspect of life really. Losing something and not realizing there is something newer waiting for you. It really is hard though, when you've got something that you know,
You're comfortable with,
You think it's easy,
You like it,
But when it ups and leaves. What have you got then? Well to be perfectly harsh. Nothing.
Relationships, they end. We all know they do. Nothing is forever right? Wrong. It is what you make it. You control it. Well, that two of you do. Break-up's are hard, I know. But you never know who might pop up out of the blue. If you break up with someone or they break up with you, everything happens for a reason. IF you break up, then it was never meant to be. But with relationships you've got to go through all the shitty doors first before you find that one door, that's perfect for you. Everything happens for a reason, everything. There is something better out there for you.
There is always ALWAYS a new door waiting for you. Sometimes you might even have to open it, sounds like a lot of effort, I know. A door is an opportunity, for you, for your life. Why not take it?
You might have to open doors.
You might go through some wrong doors? Bad doors maybe?
You might be scared to go through some doors.
YOU might even have to find some doors.
But when you find them, open them, or are scared of them. Say Fuck it. Run 100 mile an hour through that door, you never know what is on the other side and you know what?
That's the greatest part of all. It's so exciting. That's life for you. You never really know what's coming or what's next. Everything is so unpredictable, it's brilliant. People do as they want, change when they want. Nature does what it wants. Some might say that's a scary thought and I guess yeh it kind of is. But look at the other side of it. It's so exhilarating. Every day should both excite and inspire you. Even if things are really shit in your life and you think you won't recover from something, you know you can. You never know whats coming next.
Don't plan your life. Don't not do things because of a plan. Live your life how you want. It's your life, so yeh it's about you. It's your story, write it and make it a damn good story.
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