Strength takes on all sorts of different forms.
You can be just a general strong person.
You can be physically strong.
You can be attractive, because you're strong.
You can have strong morals.
You can be strong-willed.
They're all 'can' because you can be any you wish to be. It's up to you. You choose your own path.
Strong people.
Such huge admiration flows from everyone to strong people. People who have guts, people who have courage, people who are brave. If you manage to be any of the last 3, any of the time, you're doing well. We admire strong people, we look up to them. They're the people who get things done, help out, whatever they need. Strong people are the best form of motivation, when someone has the potential to do something great. When you're in a shitty time or place and you need just a friend or someone to talk to you always seem to call on a person who is strong. Someone who can help you out and knows what to do and if they don't they sure as hell can pretend to. The strong people we know, who we never seem to give enough credit to just for being them. You've got no idea what anyone else does when you're not around and if they're a good person, you can guarantee it's something good. Always assume the best.
Strong People
Strong people are sexy. People who can manage to stand on their own two feet without any support from anyone. A person who is independent, in control and .. strong. I don't mean physically strong people, who really gives a shit. If you're with someone because you think they're attractive but you can't stand them the rest of the time, you're a massive massive twat. Weak people are just hard to be around, they're depressive at best. Everyone can be a strong person, it's about willingness to do so. If you have no ambition to better yourself or change yourself, I can only ask why not? I don't mean conform to the norm. I mean change for the better, work to improve yourself as much as you can. It's a huge challenge, but if you're a strong person you'll try it. You'll be glad you did. When you meet someone for the first time, if they were shy, didn't talk much, kept to themselves and were just weak would you want to be round them much longer? Or would you rather meet someone who is willing to say 'hello' to someone they've never met, talk to them and make a new friend in someone great? I know what I'd choose. Strong people are awesome, they're the best. No way round it.
Strong Morals
In your life you will meet people who just have their head in the right place. They know exactly what's going on and exactly what the right choice is. They know their right from wrong. These people are amazing, one in a million. Unless you are one of these people, you're faced with the touch decision every day of what's right and what's wrong. Sometimes it's a mighty fine line. Some of the hardest decisions are whether to benefit yourself or someone else. Or to benefit someone you know or someone you don't. You usually know which one deserves it more but it's all about self-gratification. Don't let it be. Think of the person who deserves it most, whatever 'it' is. The decision, though, is always tough. The ones you have to make on the spot and the ones you can go away and think about. It's tough because, it's either right or it's wrong. Luckily thought, not all the time. Sometimes you get lucky and it's an easy decision that doesn't affect one way or the other. When you're faced with a lot of hard decisions remember that even if you do make the wrong decision, "Good decisions come from experience, and experience comes from bad decisions."
So be strong. Keep your chin up, even in the worst of times. Put on your brave face and be the strong one everyone looks to.
The Ability to Let Go
When one door closes and another opens, sometimes we dwell too much on the closed door to even see the open one in front of us. When the things we want, had, loved, are gone we tend to dwell on them too long. Grief is a part of life, granted. But when things change, the glass is half-full. You lose something, you move forward and look for something better. It'll never replace what you had, but it's something new to appreciate. Change is good, all things change, nothing is extinguished.
I'll leave you with these three as something to take away.
Anatole France - One must never lose time in vainly regretting the past or in complaining against the changes which cause us discomfort, for change is the essence of life.
Life is easier than you'd think; all that is necessary is to accept the impossible, do without the indispensable, and bear the intolerable.
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
Thursday, January 27, 2011
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